From Marianne to Eleanor's transformation
throughout the whole article, there is no doubt that Eleanor is the ideal woman that Austin wants to shape. She is generous and decent, acts prudently, has a clear mind, takes into account the overall situation, and is in the face of lovelorn. When in pain, be good at using reason to control your emotions.
Marianne, who is the exact opposite of her, is impulsive, warm and lovely, innocent, and unrestrained when she is sad and happy, especially when facing Willoughby's ruthless abandonment, she is immersed in painful emotions and cannot extricate herself. Nearly killed.
According to my reading experience, the first half of the novel unfolds from two parallel perspectives, Eleanor and Marianne. Because of their very different personalities, their views on people and things are also quite different, especially on the issue of love.
First of all, they had disputes over the choice of a partner. Marianne only loves men who are attractive, passionate, and intelligent, so when Willoughby rides a horse on a hillside in the rain to save beauty, Marianne falls in love instantly, the kind of dramatic plot, romantic scene, and their artistic sympathy later in life convinced Marianne that Willoughby was her destined love.
This kind of strong and romantic fantasy is a typical girl's complex in love. This kind of complexity does not work for the rational Eleanor. Eleanor is deeply shy and introverted. Edward is not good at talking.
Attraction, that kind of attraction is a little dull and calm. From the appearance, it is hard to believe that it is the attraction of love.
No wonder Marianne questioned her sister strangely:
"The relationship between the two of them is always unpredictable. The last time they broke up, they were so cold and so calm. When they were together the night before, they spoke so plainly!"
In Marianne's view, this kind of plain and watery relationship is definitely not loving, but love should be passionate like fire Just as the composure and indifference shown by Edward in his lyrical poems puzzled Marianne, in Marianne's view, such a beautiful verse should be recited in an intoxicating and irresistible tone, an artistic one. How can a listless person have fiery love?
Eleanor did not think so, she knew Edward's heart deeply, she respected Edward's character and understood his situation when Edward fell into depression and had to be cold and silent with Eleanor because of the objection to the marriage contract and family,
Eleanor was still able to restrain her negative emotions and treat Edward with sympathy and tolerance. She knew very well Edward's kindness and firmness and also knew that Edward's situation was involuntary, so she could not let her emotions go.
Edward and Eleanor had a tacit understanding in their hearts. For Eleanor, a man with a noble personality, steadfastness, modesty, and restraint was far better than a brilliant but flashy playboy. Therefore, Eleanor naturally has a lot of criticism of Willoughby, which is clearly reflected in the difference between the two sisters in their love behavior.
After falling in love, the innocent and lovely Marianne disregarded basic etiquette. She and Willoughby were inseparable almost every day. Marianne put all her thoughts on Willoughby, and they never concealed themselves in public. , boldly expressed her intimacy with each other, even if others made fun of them as a topic, Marianne never took it to heart and still went her own way.
Eleanor obviously disliked their behavior, especially Willoughby's indiscretion, eloquence, and pushy show that Eleanor couldn't agree. She felt that Willoughby liked to judge on any occasion. It's too much like her sister, and this kind of contempt for the rules of etiquette is out of control.
Eleanor naturally incorporates moral constraints into the behavior of love. In her opinion, good love needs to be restrained by moral behavior, and temperance and rationality are the consistent virtues of women in love.
She made no secret of her admiration for Colonel Brandon: "My darling you said is a reasonable person, and the reason is always attractive to me... He has seen a lot of the world and has been abroad, reading After reading books, he is willing to use his brain. I found that he can teach me a lot on various issues; he always answered my questions calmly, showing both culture and patience."
Colonel Brandon Marianne's unassuming love has always been admired by Eleanor, and his unrequited concern for their families moved Eleanor, and his low-key, introverted, well-educated temperament made Eleanor much admired.
Marianne, on the other hand, was deeply disgusted by the shameless submission of reason to vulgar ideas. Although she had great respect for Colonel Brandon, she did not like his gloomy old age and lack of vitality, even laughing at a thirty-five-year-old man's love of dressing. The blue velvet vest must be the cause of rheumatic pain.
Willoughby's treachery and the appearance of Edward's first love, Lucy, are the turning points of the novel, and the narrative after that is more developed from Eleanor's point of view. From the time Willoughby left to the lack of news, and then to the marriage of the rich lady, it is no secret that this series of events brought a heavy blow to Marianne.
She who is very affectionate lost herself in an instant like countless little girls who have lost love. The ideal space woven by the girl's fantasy used to be filled with Willoughby, and once Willoughby left, this space quickly collapsed. She can't accept such a fatal blow, she can only be immersed in her past memories and let her emotions run wild, so as to temporarily relieve the pain of lovelorn.
At the same time, when Eleanor confronts Lucy's true identity, she suffers no less than Marianne, and she also begins to question Edward's loyalty and feelings for her, but in rational contemplation and calm After the analysis, Eleanor could still suppress the pain and pressure in her heart.
She quickly abandoned the shadows of Edward and Lucy's past, forgives Edward's mistakes with understanding and sympathy, and still trusts Edward's present wholeheartedness toward her. Once such a belief has been established, neither Lucy's malicious attacks nor jealousy will shake Eleanor.
The nobility of Eleanor's heart is most prominently shown: when she knew that Edward would fulfill the promise of the engagement to marry Lucy and had to be abandoned by the family when she realized that her love with Edward was almost hopeless, she still sympathized with Edward's situation and did her best. Helping them if possible and wishing them a happy life is heartwarming.
Suffering can stimulate growth, especially the pain of lovelorn. Marianne struggled to escape from a long period of negative emotions and eventually faced both physical and mental collapse. After a serious illness, she survived and suffering made her stronger.
And wisdom, what she said to Eleanor after her illness was thought-provoking, she regretted her former impulses and ego, and she knew that emotional laissez-faire led directly to her suffering, even to those who loved her.
The same suffering, after that, she chose to repay and control her feelings, she believed that her conscience and reason could guide her happiness, this kind of transformation has made me see Eleanor's shadow, after experiencing inner struggle and entanglement, a naive innocent girl grows into a wise and wise woman, and Marianne is destined to abandon her seventeen-year-old girlish feelings and love someone more worthy of her love with conviction.
Through this strong contrast, Austin has hinted at the majority of women through Eleanor's "ideal paradigm": in a male-dominated society, if you want to autonomously determine your own happiness, you must be good at using reason to control your emotions.
The Conflict Facing the Perfect View of Happiness
Through the comparison of the two sisters, it is not difficult to see that Eleanor starts from the "other" more, and her behavior in love always follows a certain strict morality.
In terms of concept, she has to consider the feelings of her mother and sister, take into account the situation of Edward and his family, and worry about housework and housework. Under the leadership of this strong sense of responsibility, she consciously let go of the emotions that belonged to herself.
Marianne starts from the feeling of "self". She is unwilling to succumb to the external concept and go against the true will of the heart. She dares to think and act, has clear love and hate, and is frank and candid. hurt the feelings of others.
That is to say, on the surface, Marian is more aware of the conflict between self and other than Eleanor, so does Austen's story tell us that Eleanor will not face inner conflict, she will be happier than Marianne? I don't think so.
The principle of rationality that Eleanor upholds is rationality with the label of morality. Her actions always conform to the standards of moral concepts. Such a rational conception always guides her to behave appropriately.
This solid belief can be both Let her resolutely pull away from negative emotions when she encounters difficulties, but will also let her suppress her true emotions and choose forbearance.
When this kind of forbearance and restraint will eventually erupts, the most obvious manifestation is when Edward told Eleanor that Lucy didn't marry him and that he was willing to resume the relationship with Eleanor, Eleanor could no longer be calm, she ran out of the room, changed the attitude of a lady in the past, her tumultuous emotions Expressed in tears.
At that moment, we finally understood that no matter how rational a woman is, she cannot escape the sentimental side of a woman. Women are inherently emotional animals, they are used to acting on their emotions, especially for love, women instinctively regard love as their entire career, and they will spend all their energy on love.
Men are different. Men have many things to pursue besides love. When encountering emotional difficulties, they will make more rational and realistic considerations.
This difference is not only determined by the innate physiological and psychological structure but also caused by the social structure and system. If we deliberately ask women to suppress the emotional side and use the ability that men are better at - rationality, This easily hides the feminine and lovely side of women.
In my opinion, Eleanor's tearful scene is the most lovely part of her in the whole book, because all the moral armor is disarmed, and she restores the pure and sexual side of a woman.
This formed a huge tension with her previous empathy, magnanimity, and decent words and deeds in social situations. Her temperance and tolerance often made her go against her heart. Sometimes she tried to please Mrs. Janis and Middleton.
The lady would say something welcome, although the act of avoiding embarrassment was decent. Even after she was hit by a love affair, she had to quietly eat with her family to avoid suspicion.
In this way, Eleanor will often face inner entanglements, and conflicts between herself and others, but she swallows these conflicts in her heart, making these conflicts more hidden.
If it is said that the root of civilization lies in repressing one's own heart and putting on the cloak of moral hypocrisy, such "goodness" needs to be considered. If women need to suppress their own sensibility and innocence to exercise rational power in order to obtain happiness in love, then Such "happiness" is also worth examining.